Political campaigns have for years been full of negative advertising and personal attacks. That’s normal. What I’m seeing for the first time this year is a growing resentment among the electorate Continue reading Campaign: What’s Different This Time
Category Archives: Anger
Feeling Blah
Some feelings are clear. You can identify easily the sensation of being angry or scared or deeply in love. But what about those blah days when you feel a general unease Continue reading Feeling Blah
Occupy! Converting Anger to Action
The “Occupy” movement on Wall St. and in other cities around the country has shown they are serious about their protest. What do the Occupiers need to do to generate real change?
The movement was born out of emotion, specifically anger. Millions of Americans were and are angry about our weak economy and the housing problem. They are mad at the financial leaders whose shortsighted behavior caused the economic collapse. And they are angrier still that these same tycoons have been rewarded with big bonuses rather than punished for their misdeeds.
But anger alone does not generate change. Change happens when angry people cool down and make wise decisions followed by measured action. For the Occupiers, getting past that anger is essential if they are to create any part of the change they long for. So far, they seem to be doing a pretty good job.
The same is true in your own life. Anger feels powerful. But it accomplishes nothing beyond your own feelings. Anger is not productive and does not create value. If something makes you angry enough to want to change the status quo, get over the hot emotion of anger first. Then channel that energy into cool, productive, organized, effective action.
Being Right and Other Values
It’s frustrating when you’re right, you know it, and you still can’t win. The frustration feels terrible. But how you feel is often far from the most important thing. Continue reading Being Right and Other Values
Government Shutdown?
The prospect of a government shutdown over money upsets an awful lot of people. If you look deeper, Continue reading Government Shutdown?
Battle Between Love and Hate
Love and hate sound like opposites but they’re not at all. Continue reading Battle Between Love and Hate
Rejoicing at Bin Laden’s Death
The murderous Osama Bin Laden is dead. Our nation is happy to hear the news. The good feeling has two distinct qualities. Continue reading Rejoicing at Bin Laden’s Death
Anger of Arab Spring
Anger of young people in the Arab countries continues to boil, as demonstrations against cruel dictators are growing in Syria and continue elsewhere. Anger, as always, indicates a feeling of having been victimized Continue reading Anger of Arab Spring
Anger in Egypt
The turmoil in Egypt, now going on for a week, was born out of anger. The Egyptian people feel angry, they see themselves as victimized, and they know who to blame. But can anger make things better? Continue reading Anger in Egypt
Hidden under Anger
I got into an argument with my wife yesterday. It was a small, ordinary argument: she wanted to put an exercise machine in a room where I didn’t want it. Our voices became raised as we made our cases: “You always …” and “Why can’t you ever…” etc. Continue reading Hidden under Anger