Compromise is a terrific idea that feels lousy. It feels like giving in, even while it creates a pathway to success. Continue reading Why It’s So Hard to Compromise
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Finding Happiness Indirectly
You can’t get to happiness by pursuing it directly. Happiness is a by-product of being connected to people, ideas, and activities Continue reading Finding Happiness Indirectly
Greatest Strength & Greatest Weakness
The sad story of former baseball great Lenny Dykstra illustrates a fact of life that applies to many of us. Sometimes what we’re best and and worst at are opposite sides of the same coin. Continue reading Greatest Strength & Greatest Weakness
Build on Your Strengths
Building upon strengths appears to be more beneficial, and makes people happier, than trying to correct weaknesses. That’s the conclusion Continue reading Build on Your Strengths
Underdogs We Love
We love the underdog because he/she reminds us of our self. Since love is a feeling Continue reading Underdogs We Love
Government Shutdown?
The prospect of a government shutdown over money upsets an awful lot of people. If you look deeper, Continue reading Government Shutdown?
Ordinary Disappointment
Feeling disappointed sometimes is normal. It happens to everyone. Just don’t make it mean more than it does. Continue reading Ordinary Disappointment
Mindfulness in Central Park
New York City on July 4th: New Yorkers have mostly abandoned the city to the tourists, and most everything of interest is closed. Except Central Park. Continue reading Mindfulness in Central Park
The Happiness Hypothesis, Pt. 1
I am reading a terrific book called The Happiness Hypothesis. Jonathan Haidt, a professor at the University of Virginia, writes about timeless ideas from famous thinkers as applied to the modern pursuit of happiness. Quoting the likes of Buddha and the Greek philosopher Epictetus, Haidt ties together themes from the movement known as Positive Psychology which studies the lives of happy, successful people. Continue reading The Happiness Hypothesis, Pt. 1
Rory McIlroy
Almost as extraordinary as Rory McIlroy’s golfing achievement this week is the response to him. When have you ever seen a sporting event in which everybody is rooting for the same competitor? Continue reading Rory McIlroy